Introduction
In Florida, a parenting plan is more than just a suggestion—it is a court order that both parents are legally required to follow. When one parent chooses to ignore the agreed-upon schedule or fails to comply with its terms, it can create stress, confusion, and conflict for the entire family. If your ex is ignoring your parenting plan, it is important to know that you have legal options to protect your rights and your time with your child.
1. Document Every Violation
Your first step should be to carefully document each time your ex violates the parenting plan. Keep a detailed log that includes dates, times, and descriptions of what happened.
- Save text messages, emails, or voicemails that show a failure to comply.
- Note any missed exchanges or late drop-offs/pick-ups.
- Keep records of any instances where the child was withheld or scheduled activities were disrupted.
Good documentation can serve as valuable evidence if you decide to take the matter to court.
2. Communicate First — If Safe
In some cases, the issue can be resolved through direct communication. If it is safe and appropriate, try addressing the problem with your ex in writing. This ensures there is a paper trail and avoids “he said, she said” disputes later.
Be clear, polite, and focused on your child’s needs—not personal grievances. If communication has been difficult or unsafe in the past, you may want to skip this step and speak directly with an attorney.
3. File a Motion to Enforce
If your ex continues to ignore the parenting plan, you can file a motion to enforce it in family court. This motion asks the judge to compel compliance with the plan and can include requests for make-up time with your child. In many cases, the court will schedule a hearing where both sides can present evidence.
4. Request Contempt of Court
When a parent repeatedly violates the parenting plan, the court may find them in contempt. Contempt of court is a serious matter and can lead to:
- Fines
- Mandatory parenting classes
- Compensatory time-sharing for the non-offending parent
- Even jail time in extreme cases
A contempt finding shows the court takes these violations seriously and is willing to impose consequences to protect the child’s best interests.
5. Work With an Experienced Family Law Attorney
Navigating these disputes can be overwhelming, especially when emotions run high. A Florida family law attorney can help you:
- Gather and present evidence effectively
- File the correct motions with the court
- Represent you at hearings
- Advocate for your parenting time and your child’s best interests
Conclusion
If your ex is ignoring your parenting plan in Florida, you do not have to handle the situation alone. By documenting violations, communicating effectively, and taking legal action when needed, you can protect your rights and your relationship with your child.
📞 Contact Lipinski Family Law today to discuss your case and learn how we can help you enforce your parenting plan.
